Wednesday, December 31, 2008

Goals for 2009

Okay, so here are the goals--any support and help will be much appreciated.
1. Daily personal and family scripture study and prayer (Conference issues of the Ensign also count).
2. Keep the Sabbath day holy
3. Live the law of the fast
4. Regular Family Home Evening
5. Attend the temple weekly--after work on Thursdays
6. Family history--research and work 
7. Regular blog/journaling
8. Work on photo albums during spring break and over the summer
9. Share the gospel daily in at least some small way
10. Regular calls and visits to mom
11. Work on budgeting and saving
12. Save for Kelly and Shannon missions
13. Fulfill my church callings
14. Exercise daily--walk with twins on weekdays
15. Container garden
16. Continue my reading plan on biographies of the presidents
17. Go back to school or at least audit online classes in the fall


Bigger picture--I hope

Here's a slightly larger picture of the nativity...

Beautiful Nativity

I forgot to mention a few other delightful gifts. Mike got me a beautiful nativity. It's by an artist named Jim Shore and all the characters in the scene are wearing outfits that look like elaborate quilts. I know that Best Friend would love this--I'm going to try to put the picture of it in here.

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My mom also gave me a lovely nativity that lights up--the twins love it! Plus, she gave us a wonderful, red, enameled cast iron pot. I know I can cook up some yummy stuff in it.


Christmas was lovely and peaceful and I'm now trying to get my mind going on the new year.....

Tuesday, December 30, 2008

A low key Christmas

Hmmm......How to describe this year's festivities? First a bit of background--I was sick for the first three weeks of December. Oh, I made it to work (only missed one day) but I hacked and coughed my way through the period when it was "beginning to look a lot like Christmas." I couldn't sing a note, felt dreadful and did absolutely no decorating. I just went to work, tried to talk with my pitiful, croaking voice, and went home to rest. So, this was the year of no tree, no decorations, presents wrapped in gift bags, but not Christmas paper, and no Christmas cards. I feel a bit like a failure, but there it is. Then, once I felt better, I went to Utah to drive home with Lauren. By the time we got home, decorating seemed like kind of waste of time, plus it was very cold, I'm a wimp and I didn't want to go to the storage unit, get everything out, and freeze to put up a tree for only a few days. Plus, there was one more compelling reason to forgo the tree--Zeke--our wonderful, impish kitten. I know that Julie fought Bear over her tree, and Karen and Bob found their Jack perched on top like the Christmas star, so I decided that was the final, and perhaps most compelling, reason to skip the tree this year. I may be called a Scrooge, but that's that.

So, we enjoyed Julie's tree and opened presents over at her house on Christmas morning. The boys were so much fun to watch--their enthusiasm more than makes up for the lack of it in some of the older folks. I gave the girls cash, because I can't seem to pick out anything they like any more. Julie and Kara were thrilled --they love to shop, but Lauren, not so much.....Oh well.......

I know it's unfair, but I got the best Christmas presents. Mike bought me a bunch of beautiful shirts at Jones New York--they have gorgeous clothes, he loves to shop, and he doesn't feel guilty spending money. I wouldn't have had nearly as much fun buying them for myself. We also bought a new car--it's another PT Cruiser, this time in white with automatic transmission. He will actually drive it for the next 10 months or so as he attends a police academy in Mesquite, but after that, it's mine. Kara gets the purple PT to use now and to take to college, and Mike will keep the truck and his motorcycle. I'll drive the truck while he attends the academy. The new car is beautiful and if you're going to buy one, now seems to be the time, better deals are available now than have been offered in many years.

What else...I finally joined the 21st century and got a page on Facebook. My main goal was to keep up with my students who have graduated. I just love those kids and then they graduate and completely disappear. This way, I can keep track of at least a few of them. I've already received several emails from former students and hope to find more of them as time goes by. I also tracked down two of my favorite people from high school and have heard from both of them. It's amazing to think we've been out of high school for more than 30 years. But hey, I still get to hang out with the kids and have fun while doing it. I know I've said it before, but teaching is the most wonderful thing I've ever done. I love the kids and I am blessed to know them.

So, now we march on to 2009. I've worked out my goals and I'll post those next. I figure if I tell everyone about them, maybe I can get some encouragement to actually accomplish them.....

Travel Adventures

On Thursday, Dec. 18 (almost two weeks ago.....my how time flies) I was supposed to fly to Salt Lake City to meet Lauren and then help her drive home to Texas. She has just graduated from BYU, and is moving back so that she can live with Julie for a few months, find a job, save some money, and then strike out on her own. Anyway, the trip started badly, as my flight was delayed some three hours, then we found out that we would all miss our connections in Denver. Being stranded in Denver didn't sound too fun, even though I knew I would get on a flight to SLC the next morning, but luckily, I have wonderful relatives!!! My cousin Diana went far above and beyond the call of duty in coming to the airport, waiting more than an hour on me because I was trapped in a line with all the other delayed folks trying to get our boarding passes for the next morning's flights, then taking me back to the airport at the horrendous hour of 5 a.m. She deserves great kudos and thanks and accolades and I am so appreciative. So, I spent the night in Denver, saw Greg for about 5 minutes, had great visits with Diana going from and to the airport and finally arrived in SLC on Friday morning. I did meet some nice people on the plane, all of whom sent best wishes to Lauren on her graduation (that made me feel really good) and I'm glad I had a chance to visit with Diana, even if the circumstances weren't ideal. I was hoping that our trek south could take us back through Denver, so that we could have a real visit, but the weather did not cooperate. Interstate 70 looked bad going over the mountains west of Denver, so we took the more southern route home, just hitting the corner of Colorado as we went from southern Utah into New Mexico. Once Lauren picked me up and we got some breakfast (I love the bacon, egg and cheese bagels at McDonalds--try them if you get the chance), we headed south. We saw lots of snow on the side of the road, especially in southern Utah near Monticello and all through that southwest corner of Colorado, and we had some blowing snow on the roads in that area, but overall, the roads were clear and dry and great all the way home. We made it to Albuquerque by 8 p.m., found a reasonably priced hotel and hit the sack. I was especially pleased by the help given from several people in Cortez, Colorado. I had thought we might go on east to Durango, then catch highway 550 south into New Mexico and take it all the way to Albuquerque, but I was advised by three friendly people to instead go south from Cortez to Shiprock, turn east there to Farmington and catch 550 in Bloomfield. The folks in Cortez said the snow would get dramatically deeper if we went to Durango, so we took their advice. The road from Bloomfield to Albuquerque is a nice, four-lane divided highway that I had never been on before. Always in the past, when we took the southern route, we went all the way south from Cortez to Gallup, through the Indian reservation, then hit Interstate 40 to head east. This route took miles off the trip, and was a better road. (Once I got home and told Linda G. about it, I figured out why I'd never gone that way before--the road is only about five years old). Anyway, the trip went really well. Our only major delay was for a wreck on I-40, somewhere out in the boonies. It looked bad and had trucks and cars backed up for miles. Some people were driving across the median and heading back the other way, but we had to go east, and wandering around on the back roads of New Mexico didn't seem to smart. In the end, we crept along for about 45 minutes and then got clear and zoomed on.

We were amused by the Cadillac ranch just west of Amarillo, and then tired by the time we finally got to Arlington. You think you're nearly home when you arrive in Texas, but no....it's at least six hours from Amarillo to home....Big place, this Lone Star State.

That's it for our exciting trip.....another post for Christmas coming up.

Sunday, December 21, 2008

You've Got to See This

Lots and lots of things to share, but I'll do it tomorrow when I'm more awake. In the meantime, you've got to see this....Love, love, love it.

Wednesday, December 17, 2008

Off to get the Lauren

Just to keep everyone in the loop, I'm flying to Utah tomorrow and will be driving (with BYU graduate Lauren) home to Texas on Friday and Saturday. Please keep us, the roads and her car in your prayers. I'm so proud of her for graduating and hope that you are, too.

More info when we return!

Monday, December 8, 2008

This sounds a little weird......

It looks like the creators of Southpark are now working on "Mormon Musical." It probably won't be anything decent folk can see, but it's definitely an interesting concept. Here's the link--see what you think.

Saturday, December 6, 2008

More Defenders of Faith

After my post regarding Prop 8 and the backlash against people of faith, particularly those of the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints, I was very pleased today to find this ad that ran in the New York Times. You'll have to click on the ad a couple of times to enlarge it, but I think the writers have some important things to say.

Wednesday, December 3, 2008

Trying to figure out how to add links

Here is the link for the Jonah Goldberg column. Oh! I think I've done it!!! (I'll try it out and see) I feel so proud of myself.......

At least someone is defending us!

I don't know if you've paid much attention to the Proposition 8 conflict out in California, but here is the Reader's Digest condensed version. In June, the California Supreme court "found" that the state constitution allowed for gay marriages. So, California immediately began issuing marriage licenses and 18,000 gay couples tied the knot over the next five months. Many people in California opposed the idea that five judges should make the final decision on this issue for the millions who live in the state, so they started a movement that eventually got the issue on the ballot in the Nov. election. Come November, the citizens of California voted 52% to 48% to prohibit gay marriage. Well, you'd think the gay rights folks could accept a legal and lawful election, but noooooo. They've been protesting and interrupting various faith's church services and picketing the LDS temples and sending white powder to LDS temples and beating up old ladies while stomping their crosses into the ground, etc. ever since. Last week they picketed the temple here in Dallas, and security personnel had to lock the gates of the temple to keep them out. A bit much don't you think? Today Jonah Goldberg, who writes for National Review (my favorite online political site--I highly recommend it if you are of the conservative persuasion--and even if you're not, it's a good read) stood up for us Mormon folk and his column is quite good. Here is the URL:

http://article.nationalreview.com/?q=YWZiMzYwZDNjOWI1NGVlZTk5OTg4Y2E3YzIyZTllZTg=

I'm not clever enough to figure out how to put links in here; maybe someone can show me someday. Anyway, I was pleased that a nice Jewish fellow stood up for us.

Monday, December 1, 2008

Thanksgiving

First--I'm so thankful that Lauren made the trip to and from California safely. Against my advice (amazing that you cannot pray away other people's agency, isn't it?) she decided to spend Thanksgiving in San Diego with her old friend Kat. Off she went. traveling 700 miles each way. The trip south was quite eventful. She called me from Victorville, California, to let me know that one of her back tires was completely shredded. Lovely, my beautiful daughter is stranded, alone, on the side of the highway more than 1,000 miles away from me. Luckily, we have the road hazard insurance on our cars, so she called GEICO, who promised to send help within a half hour. The California Highway Patrol also stopped to help; she got the donut tire put on, was advised to drive no more than 60 miles on it, and she went on her way, searching for a tire shop as she went. Unfortunately, no shop appeared, and about 100 miles along the way she stopped at a gas station and realized that the other back tire was shot. So, another call to GEICO followed by a tow to Kat's house. The insurance only covers a five mile tow, not a 60 mile trek, so it was an expensive outing, but she was safely there (albeit with one donut tire and two shredded ones). She had a lovely Thanksgiving feast with Kat and crew, then bought two new tires on Friday. Thank goodness, the return trip to Provo was totally uneventful--no problems at all, and now she's back where she belongs. Mike said that perhaps the whole thing was a blessing in disguise--she and I could have had the tire problems later this month when I fly up to Salt Lake City and then drive her home--to stay this time. It was a worrisome time for old mom, though. I pray and pray and pray, but somehow I seem to lack faith because I still worry about my kids (and grandkids). I'm just thankful, thankful, thankful that she made it back safely. And I hope the two of us have a much less exciting trip Dec. 19 and 20.

Our Thanksgiving celebration was lovely. The food turned out well--I even managed to make pretty good cornbread dressing this year. It's not as good as grandma's yet, but I'm steadily improving. Julie, Kelly and Shannon joined Mike, Kara and I and Nana came, too. We also invited our friend Joe (he's Mike's home teaching companion) and an old friend, Jeff, with his seven-year-old daughter, Holly. We had a fine meal, good company, great conversation--what more could you ask? Then, Julie, Kara and I topped off the day with an outing to the movies. It was perfect.

In fact, the whole week was restful and lovely. I had the entire week off, so I relaxed, read, slept, accomplished almost nothing, but had a great time doing it. I'm very thankful for vacations and time to be still.

Other things I'm thankful for:
Today Mike helped pull a man from a burning car. The accident happened right in front of him on the way home from work and he, along with two other motorists, ran to rescue the unconscious man from his burning car. I'm thankful to have such a good, kind, brave husband.

Terrific, fun, thoughtful daughters. I am blessed with three of the world's best.

Grandsons!!! Two are Terrific!

Many dear friends who love me despite my many faults and shortcomings.

The gospel of Jesus Christ and the freedom to worship in peace.

A career that fills and fulfills me. I love my students and I am blessed to be a teacher.

Meeting and writing about endlessly fascinating people and programs at UT Arlington.

The opportunity to travel all over the world.

Beauty in all it's forms--art, music, literature, marvelous creations brought to us by fellow children of our Heavenly Father.

This wonderful world--every creature and creation testifies of Christ.

Twilight

I had read the first three books, so on Thanksgiving, Julie, Kara and I were off to see the movie. I really liked it! Actually, in my humble opinion, it's much better than the book. NO WHINING!!!! My biggest complaint with the books is the pages and pages and pages of Bella's internal whining. Too much for an old woman who has lived through three teenage girls and currently teaches a boatload of them. And, though I have already expressed this sentiment to some, let me now put it on the record: the writing in Twilight and its sequels is mediocre at best. These are NOT classic novels. While the author does have a fairly compelling story, she really has enough good plot for about two books and the editors/publishers/money grubbers have stretched the series to four books. Too, too many pages of no action. Another confession, I skim and/or skip when the action wanes. Kara says that you must read every word, but I say there are no word police and if it's boring (unless you're reading for school, then you must read it all) skip it! There, I'll bet you never though you'd hear that from an English teacher. However, as a teacher and a professional writer, I just don't have the time or patience to wade through badly written, boring material. There are too many great books for me to waste my time on dreck.

However, don't think I'm consigning Twilight to the dreck bin. It is better than that. And, after seeing the movie on Thursday evening, I spent all day Friday reading the last book in the series just to find out how it all ends. (skipped the boring parts, though).

Gifted and Talented--Me?

So, it's time to try to catch up a bit. First, the Texas Association for the Gifted and Talented conference which I attended with Lisa on Nov. 13 and 14. I really enjoy going to this conference because I get so many good (no, great) ideas to use in my classes. The best two sessions I attended this year were presented by Lisa. One, "Laughing Yourself Smart" revolved around ideas to bring humor into the classroom. (Although this conference is directed at teaching gifted kids, the information is really great for everyone). From her workshop, I got the idea to use the squawking chicken that we've had laying around the house as a motivation for my students. This chicken has a strong rubber neck that you can pull on to launch the fowl across the room and it squawks when it lands. So, I took it to school, and used it as my visual aid while telling them the story of the eagle who was raised with the chickens and failed to achieve his full potential. He just kept scratching in the dirt when he should have soared in the heavens. I told the kids they are all eagles but sometimes they act like chickens and when that happens, they can expect this fine feathered friend to visit our class. Then I launched the chicken across the room. It was great. And even better, during 7th period, one of my students fell asleep. Amazing how startling a squawking chicken can be when it lands on a sleeping student's desk. He jumped a foot at least. I was highly amused. (and he hasn't slept in class since).

I also submitted proposals and made two presentations at the conference. It was an okay experience, but I don't know if I'll repeat it. I can put this on my vita and it will look good, but I didn't really enjoy myself. In part that was because both of my presentations were the last of the day. On the first afternoon, only three people attended (my dear friend Lisa being one of them). It was called The Amazing Technicolor Dream Class and was about ways to engage students of different ethnicities and cultures. I thought it was pretty good, but the attendance was disappointing. Thus, I had few hopes for the second presentation on blogging (because I'm such an expert at this). Actually, I decided to talk about blogging and use myself as a testimonial--If I can do this with my students, anyone can. And even though that was during the last session of the entire conference, about a dozen people came. They seemed to enjoy the presentation; they were willing to participate and add their ideas, and it went pretty well. So, if I can come up with a really great idea, I might do it again, but I'll have to think about it first. Lisa has been doing this for three years and has built up a great reputation--almost 200 people were in her morning humor session. I don't pretend to be as gifted as she is, but I think I'm a good teacher, so we'll see what happens next year......

Sunday, November 23, 2008

The Great Eight

Best friend tagged me on this and now that I have some time off, I'll give it a whirl. By the way--I have the entire week of Thanksgiving off (definitely something to be thankful for!) and will try to do a bit of catching up on the blog.

8 Favorite TV Shows (certainly not all current)
1. Law and Order
2. Law and Order SVU
3. Law and Order Criminal Intent (are you seeing a pattern here? I guess I like these so much because there is always a puzzle to solve and they make me think. Sometimes their liberal politics DRIVE ME BATTY, but I mostly I enjoy them, so I keep watching).
4. Hannity's America (here comes politics again....)
5. Rick Steves' Europe
6. Samantha Brown's Passport to: Europe, Latin America, China, anywhere....I love to travel!
7. The Antiques Roadshow (probably my only often-watched reality show)
8. Most everything on The Food Network. (I also love to eat)

8 Things I Did Since Friday
1. Babysat the twins so Julie could go with friends to see "Twlight."
2. Watched a very strange movie, "3000 Miles to Graceland," with Mike when we were insomniacs in the middle of the night
3. delivered stuff to the stake library
4. Went to church
5. Bragged on Kara --she got a 32 on the ACT. If you're not familiar with the scoring system for the American College Test, that's amazingly good. (ask me more about it; I'll be happy to brag some more)
6. Fed the missionaries and enjoyed their company
7. Took a lovely nap
8. Read the Sunday paper--although the local paper is steadily decreasing in quality, I still enjoy reading it.

8 Things to Look Forward to
1. Thanksgiving Dinner on Thursday--family and friends filling up the house (For it to really be Thanksgiving we'd need 30 people at least--like we used to have at Nannie and Papa's house. But I'll be happy with about 10)
2. Having the week off
3. Accomplishing some things around the house during my week off
4. the upcoming Christmas season--Deck The Halls!
5. our trip to Europe next summer--London, Paris, Berlin, Prague, Budapest, and Vienna!
6. Lauren graduating from BYU
7. Lauren moving back to Texas
8. Kara getting a great scholarship to BYU (we hope, hope, hope!)


8 Favorite Restaurants (or five I like and three I'd like to try)
1. Texas Roadhouse (delicious steaks, not too pricey)
2. La Madeline (French--need I say more?)
3. The Brass Bean (a delightful sandwich shop near my school)
4. The Black-eyed Pea
5. Rockfish
6. Grace --a new place in Fort Worth--sounds really expensive but delicious
7. Nagoya Japan--I want to learn more about Japanese cuisine
8. Estellas (a local mexican place I've been wanting to try out)


8 Things on My Wish List (in no particular order)
1. Much love and happiness for me and my family--and for everyone else.
2. Somebody needs to open a great gelateria in Arlington!--and they also need to sell Leonidas chocolate
3. More time at the temple and more quiet time to reflect
4. More time to spend with wonderful family and friends
5. Success for all my students--on the TAKS test, SAT, ACT, AP and in Life!
6. A summer in Great Britain
7. Another summer in France and Italy
8. A master's degree in Humanities

Sunday, November 2, 2008

Cute Monster

I went to this site from bestest friend's page and since I'm not as clever as her and have no clue how to put the picture in here, I'll just give you the web site and you can go find out what kind of monster you are.
http://www.blogthings.com/thecutemonstertest/

I'm the blue one and here's their take on me:

What Your Cute Monster Says About You

You are both a realist and an idealist. You're able to see the world as it is - and how it could be.
You dream big, and you never give up on your beliefs. You have big plans.

Your inner demon is depression. Sometimes you build things up in your head.
People think you're cute because you're determined. You're a fighter, and that's charming.



All in all, a fairly accurate evaluation of yours truly. I'm afraid I've been feeling pretty down and worthless lately, and so haven't posted much. However our church services today were wonderful and I'm feeling more inspired to try to do better. I'll give it a go.

Thursday, October 9, 2008

Somebody Likes Me!

Today I received an email from my principal which included a letter he received from a parent about me. It was so lovely and wonderful that I just have to share it with you. (Names are removed to protect privacy and confidentiality). The first note is from the principal to the parent, followed by the parent's note regarding me.

Ms. _________

Thank you very much for the positive comments about Ms. Neaves. I agree she does a wonderful job and we are glad to have her working with the students.

Have a great day





Good Morning,

I always like to give appreciation where it is due. So many times parents forget to praise the great teachers but will complain in a heartbeat. My son, _________ is severely dyslexic but with teachers like Ms. Neaves taking that one little extra step to help our children see they can do it makes a world of difference. ______ is my second son that has had Ms. Neaves and I can not praise her enough. I am sure you know she is a wonderful teacher but I have to let you know that she is a teacher that makes a difference in our young adults. _______ has only been in her class for about four weeks now because I didn't want him to be overloaded with AP classes and struggle through another year.
We made the right decision to switch him to her AP class. ______ said he has learned more in that class in the past month he has been in there than he could ever remember learning in English. You have a prize teacher and I just wanted you to know how much I appreciate it.

Have a great day!


This is the kind of thing that teachers just cherish. I love my students and always hope that I am doing good things for them, but to have it confirmed is so rewarding. I feel absolutely terrific today!!

Tuesday, September 30, 2008

Still here....

Haven't had much time to write lately, but I'm still here. What to talk about? The twins turned seven on Sunday and they are madly in love with Lego Star Wars these days. Kara made them an R2D2 cake and it turned out really well (it also tasted yummy). Julie had their party at the park, so everyone had fun, there was plenty of room, the kids had a blast on the outdoor toys, and no one had too much clean up to deal with. It was fun to see Emily and Ian, along with Brian (Josh's out of town family) all here for the party. Since their dad couldn't be here, it was really wonderful of everyone else to make the effort and come. Josh and his unit will be heading to Iraq soon, so please keep him (and all of them) in your prayers.

School continues to go well. I feel a bit overwhelmed with the responsibility of being the department chair, but I'm trying to do a good job. Today there was a mixup over whether or not the sophomore classes could take their six week's test over one or two days (allowing a second day gives them more time to complete the reading and avoids having kids rush through the test). First thing this morning we were told that it all had to be finished today. Then this afternoon, after everyone had hurried through it, we hear that they can have tomorrow. I knew that some talk about giving more time was going on during the day, but no one ever gave us the official word and I certainly couldn't make that decision at my level; it had to come from further up. So, now I have some upset teachers and I feel guilty that I couldn't do more, but I really didn't have the authority to do more.....Hm....responsibility without power.....not much fun sometimes.

On another front, a parent who was upset with me a few weeks ago, now turns to me to help her kid. Apparently I said something that upset one of my students one day. As you know, I talk a lot and we discuss current events all the time in my class. Anyway, although I have no idea what I said, apparently I inadvertently upset a young lady and her mother was very unhappy. She called our dean, complaining long and loud about how I had been disrespectful toward her culture. (Schools are very multicultural these days, and really, to avoid offending anyone, you would have to limit your comments to the weather). But I digress. This mom came to open house, we talked, I apologized and explained that I would never intentionally hurt a student and I really am harmless, and I felt pretty good by the time she left. She must think I'm okay now, too, because she needed to find a teacher to help her daughter with a rather sticky problem, and guess who got the call? That would be me. Additionally, the girl was virtually silent before her mom and I talked, and now she participates in class every day. So, at least that one worked out well.

By the way, I do realize that my posts about school have to be intentionally vague--confidentiality laws prohibit and specificity at all. But, I have to admit, it is interesting every day.

As some of you know, I stand at my door and shake hands with my students as they enter. I greet them by name, we talk briefly, and, amazingly, I have almost no discipline problems. It's a bit magical what a personal touch can do. Anyway, it's funny to see students that I had last year passing me in the hall. They too often stop for a handshake--even some of the ones who were, shall we say troublesome, come by and shake my hand. Amazing.......... Teenagers are an interesting group of people.

Yea! It looks like I have enough kids signed up for next summer's Europe trip!! With six paying students, I go free!!!!! I'm thrilled. And, I have some really great kids going. We will spend two weeks, beginning June 22, in London, Paris, Berlin, Prague, Budapest, and Vienna. By the way, adults are welcome to come along, so if anyone is interested, let me know. The trip includes air fare, hotels, trains, busses, two meals a day, and entrance to some sights, all for about $3,000. Of course, if you're a shopping maniac, you can certainly spent a lot more, but all you really have to do is pay for lunch every day, a few subway tickets, and entrance to things that are not included in the tour. I'm really getting excited to go. I love, love, love to travel.

Kara is absolutely swamped with school this year- 4 AP classes, 2 preAP, plus symphony orchestra. It's a big load. She basically comes home, does homework, goes to bed, gets up, studies some more, goes to seminary, school, home, homework, repeat, repeat, repeat. Since she was officially changed from the class of 2010 to the class of 2009, though, something truly wonderful has happened. In addition to graduating a year early, she is now 4th in her new senior class, when she was 12th in the other class. (she's wondering where she can go to be first). I'm hoping this helps in the scholarship quest.

Lauren will be graduating from BYU in December and WE ARE SO PROUD OF HER!!!!!!!!! I can't believe she's all grown up.

I loved the Relief Society (church meeting for women) broadcast on Saturday. I was particularly impressed with Elder Uchdorf. (I probably got his name wrong---sorry). He talked about all of us doing creative things and I realized that even though I have no talent for needlework, I'm no solo singer, I don't play anything well (just plunk a bit on the piano), I am very creative. I create new ideas and bring new light and knowledge into the lives of my students every day. My job is endlessly creative and I love it.

And of course, I cried almost all the way through the children's presentation at church on Sunday. They sang so beautifully; their testimonies of Jesus were so sweet. It was wonderful.

Plus--church ended with a delightful discovery. An old friend, one I haven't seen in almost 30 years, has moved back into our ward. It was so neat to see him and meet his daughter. Old friends are a treasure.

Not much else to share today.......later........

Tuesday, September 16, 2008

Scattered Thoughts

I'm thinking about, praying for, worrying about:
My friend Jenny and her family who lost everything in the deluge called Hurricane Ike.
My friends Jenni and Bonnie and the rest of their tribe whose father has had a series of strokes and is now in rehab.
My son-in-law Josh who is training in Georgia and headed to Iraq
My daughter Julie and my wonderful grandsons who are missing their husband/dad
Some of the kids at my school (and really, kids everywhere) who often have very difficult lives at home........

I pray and try to help and I really feel like my calling in life is to teach. I love my students. I love my school. I love the people I work with. I know that the Lord has blessed me with this love so that I can go out and do some good in the world. So, I'm trying to do that.

So, you must be asking, what's a day in the life of a teacher like? I'll try to tell you.....
I try to arrive at school by 7 a.m. so that I can have a few minutes of quiet to compose my thoughts and prepare for the onslaught. Once the bell rings, everything moves very quickly and time to think is at a premium. The first bell rings at 7:25 and I'm at the door, a smile on my face, trying to remember all these wonderful children's names, and shaking every hand as they walk in. I greet each one by name and welcome him or her to class. I think knowing their names and taking the time to see them as important individuals is vital.
First period begins at 7:35. It's an AP Language and Composition course, devoted to rhetorical analysis and argument. We read and analyze non-fiction--lots of essays and speeches and controversial arguments. Today we learned how to determine the tone of an author's writing. We started with identifying tone with something simple--music. We listened to three versions of The Star-Spangled Banner-Whitney Houston singing it, Jimmy Hendrix playing on his electric guitar, and the St. Louis Symphony Orchestra performing a more traditional version. Then we discussed the differences in tone, what we saw as the each performers' attitude toward the work, and how that translates to deciphering tone in written works. We then looked at a whole series of rhetorical terms that they will need to know in order to analyze rhetoric well. Their assignment is a poster and teaching project in which they will teach each other many, many more terms--familiar things like metaphor and simile and unfamiliar ones like epistrophe and asyndeton. Tone was the first term on the list, so that's why I taught it today. We then divided into eight groups and each group analyzed a short passage to determine the author's tone. The passages are great--some are hilariously funny, other ironic, one is an excerpt from Jonathan Swift's satire "A Modest Proposal" and one is a very angry tirade about trumped-up charges and a kangaroo court. I explained unfamiliar terms and they tried to discover tone. It's rewarding to see them catch on, to lead them with questions and to continue digging with why? and what evidence from the text do you have to support this? They are smart and quick and fun to work with. Our discussion finished as the bell rang, off they went, and in came second period. Rewind, repeat.
Third period is a different class--AP Literature and Composition--a course which focuses on imaginative literature. It's lots of poetry, drama, fiction--totally and completely different from the AP Language course. I feel much more comfortable with AP Language, mostly because my training is more in journalism and I'm very familiar with nonfiction. I like it, I know how to analyze it, and I have a lot of fun with it. I'm working my way into the Lit course. I'm no expert on poetry, but I think I'm doing okay on analysis of fiction. This week we're working on understanding how an author creates a character in a story. We read what the author gives and make educated conclusions about the characters. The little acronym we use is SATDO. Look at what the character says, the character's appearance, what the character thinks, what the character does, and what others say about the character. From that we can discuss the character as someone we know, we see how the author created this person. Today we read a very, very short story that had two characters and tonight the students are writing a one page discussion of both characters. The story is called "Ripe Figs" by Kate Chopin. Here it is--see what you can come up with regarding these two:

Ripe Figs
by Kate Chopin
(1851-1904)

Maman-Nainaine said that when the figs were ripe Babette might go to visit her cousins down on Bayou-Boeuf, where the sugar cane grows. Not that the ripening of figs had the least thing to do with it, but that is the way Maman-Nainaine was.

It seemed to Babette a very long time to wait; for the leaves upon the trees were tender yet, and the figs were like little hard, green marbles.

But warm rains came along and plenty of strong sunshine; and though Maman-Nainaine was as patient as the statue of la Madone, and Babette as restless as a humming-bird, the first thing they both knew it was hot summer-time. Every day Babette danced out to where the fig-trees were in a long line against the fence. She walked slowly beneath them, carefully peering between the gnarled, spreading branches. But each time she came disconsolate away again. What she saw there finally was something that made her sing and dance the whole day long.

When Maman-Nainaine sat down in her stately way to breakfast, the following morning, her muslin cap standing like an aureole about her white, placid face, Babette approached. She bore a dainty porcelain platter, which she set down before her godmother. It contained a dozen purple figs, fringed around with their rich, green leaves.

"Ah," said Maman-Nainaine, arching her eyebrows, "how early the figs have ripened this year!"

"Oh," said Babette, "I think they have ripened very late."

"Babette," continued Maman-Nainaine, as she peeled the very plumpest figs with her pointed silver fruit-knife, "you will carry my love to them all down on Bayou-Boeuf. And tell your tante Frosine I shall look for her at Toussaint--when the chrysanthemums are in bloom."


See--really short.......

Fourth period--my conference period--used to prepare lesson plans, check in on new teachers, grade papers, answer emails, talk with administrators, talk with parents--all sorts of things. The three brand new English 3 teachers all have conference this period, so I usually visit with them to see how things are going and I also grade and plan.

5th period--back to AP Language and our study of Tone

6th period--Conference period for my duties as department chair--more emails to answer and send, mentoring for our new teachers, consulting with everyone in the department on whatever they need. This month we're doing a book study on Deeper Reading, a book filled with ideas on how to get kids into reading and also get them to read more than once and with greater understanding. I'm also working on a book study for department heads on classroom management techniques that work. Plenty to keep one busy.....

7th period--one more group of AP Language kids and our fun discussion of Tone.

The final bell rings at 2:45 and teachers take a deep breath. It's almost like running a marathon. You have to pace yourself and keep the energy up all day. Every class deserves your best, and you must try to give it. I love my work, but until I started teaching, I had no idea how completely exhausting it is.

So, now you know.....Hopefully you haven't been bored on this journey through a day in high school. Come visit some time and see all the action in person.

Sunday, September 7, 2008

Too, too much

I have so much to catch up on, I hardly know where to begin. I guess we'll start with school. Exciting and Exhausting. That's how I would describe the first two weeks. The kids are great, great, great. I love teaching. Even being department chair has gone well. Everyone in our department is terrific--always willing to help each other, share whatever they have, offer advice, support, it's great. But, at our school, we've been living in scheduling hell. Classes with waaaay too many kids, and a brand new teacher with four different classes to teach--like teaching English 1, 2, 3, and 4 every day. In teacher lingo we call that four preps and it's stressful and difficult. I have been assigned as a mentor to my brand-new-teacher neighbor and he had four preps. After seemingly endless hassles, finally, finally he has only three. I can't go in to it all, but I do feel good about trying to stand up for him and be his advocate and also for standing up for my students, who did not deserve to be crammed into a classroom. I don't want to be a whiner or a problem, but I do plan to fight for what I see as the best interests of my teachers and students. I'm can say, though, that I have absolutely no ambition to move up the administration ladder. Dept. head is enough (sometimes more than enough) for me. My greatest talent lies in teaching and that's what I want to do.

How about a little politics? Was Rudy great the other night or not? His comments on Obama voting "present" rather than yes or no on more than 100 issues as a state senator were priceless. I also loved this one: "Change is not a destination, and hope is not a strategy." By the way, if you're interested in politics, you should go to www.nationalreview.com--best political commentary (from a conservative point of view) available anywhere. Smart people--great analysis.

And wasn't Sarah Palin fantastic? Mayors, as opposed to community organizers, have actual responsibilities. (As do governors). I can't help it, I love a great strike and she was masterful. I know that the president doesn't actually have the power to fulfill all the promises these people make, but he (or she) can have a huge impact on national security and that's the number one issue for me. If we're attacked, suddenly healthcare and the economy become far less important. We need to secure our nation as well as we can, then worry about those other issues (at least in my humble opinion). I have definitely had problems with McCain in the past--I disagreed with him on campaign finance reform and immigration reform as two examples--but he really "gets" security. Obama does not. Sarah Palin is great on all the other conservative issues, and maybe she can persuade McCain to move a bit on his opposition to drilling in Alaska, and on his fairly open-borders stance on immigration. By the way, I have no opposition to the immigration of hard-working, law-abiding people. I just want a system where we know who is coming in--I'd really like to keep the terrorists OUT.

It's getting late, I'm way behind on grading, and I gotta run. More later in the week.

Wednesday, September 3, 2008

A Quick Note

No time to actually write much--way too tired (you wouldn't believe how exhausting it is to teach rooms full of teenagers every day). Anyway, school has officially started and life is totally crazy. I'll try to write a long (probably exhausting to read) saga of what's happening in a couple of days.

We had a wonderful time with Lauren and now she's gone back to BYU. I miss her silliness and her hugs and her funny jokes and her crazy songs and her argyle socks cluttering up my living room.........

Friday, August 22, 2008

Four Fever

All right....looks like it's my turn to try this four game, so here goes:

Four random things I love about my husband :
1. He loves jokes, puns and total silliness and he's always making us laugh
2. He is the most reliable worker I've ever known--always does his best, never takes a sick day, totally dedicated
3. He never complains about what I spend
4. He is involved with and supportive of our children (and grandchildren)

Four jobs I’ve had:
1. High school teacher
2. Freelance writer
3. Writer for UT Arlington Publications Office
4. Grounds keeper at BYU

Four movies I have watched more than once:
1. Pride and Prejudice (Kiera Knightly version and Colin Firth version)
2. North and South (a BBC production)
3. Persuasion (with Amanda Root--the Masterpiece version was not nearly as good)
4. Jane Eyre (with Timothy Dalton--yummy)

Four TV shows I watch:
1. Law and Order (and Law and Order SVU and Law and Order Criminal Intent)
2. Monk
3. What Not to Wear
4. House

Four random places I have been:
1. London, England
2. Paris, France (but not Paris, Texas)
3. Brussels (and Liege, Belgium)
4. Florence (and Rome, Italy)

Four of my favorite foods:
1. Medium rare sirloin steak with a loaded baked potato
2. Dove or Leonidas dark chocolate
3. Gelato (preferably in Italy)
4. Blue Bell Ice Cream Sandwiches

Four places I would like to visit:
1. Australia
2. Scotland
3. Wales
4. More of England outside London

Four things I am looking forward to in the coming year:
1. a great year at school
2. traveling to London, Paris, Berlin, Prague, Budapest and Vienna next summer with some students and a good friend/fellow teacher (you are most welcome to join us!)
3. Lauren graduating from BYU
4. Kara receiving great scholarships and going to a great university

Tuesday, August 19, 2008

Ooops!

I must remember the most important part of this week.....Lauren is home!!! She's here to visit us between semesters and will go back to finish college and graduate in December. We are so proud of her!!!!! (and happy to have her home). It's a blast just to watch Julie, Lauren and Kara together. They don't even need to talk in complete sentences with each other--it's a hoot to watch--and they are hilarious. Julie says their collective IQ drops 10 points when they're together. I don't know about that, but silliness does reign. I never hear as much laughter as when all three are in the room, and the jokes are usually led by Lauren. We are so lucky to have her here.

A Great Beginning

Today marked the "official" beginning of the school year--Convocation for school teachers. We all gather for a motivational morning of inspirational talk. Sometimes it's great and sometimes its just so much drivel. Today, it was fantastic. Our speaker was Erin Gruell (I probably spelled that wrong), the lady who started the Freedom Writers. She talked about the amazing difference teachers can make in the lives of students and, of course, I cried. Then, one of her toughest students, Maria, (if you've seen the movie, she's the girl whose dad was in prison, and whose fellow gang members tried to beat her up), joined her on stage and told us how she had hated teachers and principals and bus drivers and cafeteria workers when she was small, because they had all given up on her. But Erin was different, and she completely changed Maria's life (and the lives of 149 other students). Today, Maria has a successful career, and has graduated from both high school and college. As a teacher, I very much hope that I can have a positive impact on my students. I will work very hard this year to remember every day that we are teaching children, not teaching a test. That's a very important distinction, and it gets muddled in these days of TAKS testing.

One of the most fun things about this morning was running in to one of my former students. Eddie S. graduated in 2007 and this year he is working part time as a teacher's aide while attending college. He plans to be in the classroom full time within three years. It was great to see him--all grown up! He's a terrific kid. He was also part of another fun story from our family vacation last summer.

Mike, Kara, Lauren and I spent a week in New York City last June. One day we spent most of the morning walking down Fifth Avenue window shopping. By the time we made our way down to FAO Schwartz, the famous toy store near Central Park, I was worn out and looking for a place to sit down. (One of my cardinal rules now is: when you find a place to sit, sit). Anyway, Mike and the girls wanted to shop, so off they went to the toy store. I was enjoying my rest outside when my cell phone rang and Kara said I needed to come inside. Why on earth would I want to go into a toy store? I was massively irritated, but she insisted that I come in. So, I dragged myself into the store, and who did I see but Eddie S. and Emily B., two of my wonderful students!
There we were in the middle of New York City (where we knew almost no one) and we see kids from home! It was great. We all had a wonderful time visiting, and when I went back outside, I ran into more of my students. They were in NYC with their church choir, and somehow, in the midst of that vast city, we saw them. The Lord does give us lovely little blessings like that sometimes.

I'm nervous about being our English Department chair this year, but I'm going to do my best. I've tried to befriend all the new people and put them at ease and at least that seems to be working. My room is a disorganized mess, my lesson plans aren't finished yet, and I have a presentation to do on Thursday that I'm not ready for yet.......Obviously I'm going to need a lot of help this year. Everyone seems dedicated to helping, so I hope we can succeed together.

It's late (I stayed up late again--watching Nastia and Shawn take gold and silver on beam) and I've got to get some sleep........

Wednesday, August 13, 2008

Good Friends, Good Times

I had a wonderful weekend and early week. On Saturday Kara and I went to Julie's to spend the afternoon hanging out with Jenny and Jenni and Bonnie (and even Joey). I am much (much) older than these wonderful ladies, and in fact I have taught all of the girls in Seminary classes at church, but now they're all grown up and we get to be friends. It always amazes me that when you're in high school, a two year age difference can be almost insurmountable. But, now that they're in the the mid twenties to early thirties and I've hit the big 50, a twenty year age difference is all but erased. We're just all grown ups and friends. I am so blessed with friends of all ages and they're all wonderful! We ate and talked and laughed and were thrilled that Jenny could come up from League City to see us. We'll be traveling up and down I-45 I think, just to keep up with her.

I must now confess that my proposed boycott of the Beijing Olympics has been a total failure. I meant to avoid the entire thing, as I am very much opposed to the fact that the IOC awarded the games to a totalitarian government that has a terrible record on human rights. However, my sports mania has completely taken over, and I've been watching (and watching and watching and watching--okay, you get it). Michael Phelps is completely AMAZING, the 4x100 men's freestyle relay (swimming) was the most exciting sports moment I've seen in ages (Jason Lezak caught up with and passed the world-record-holding Frenchman on the last leg for the US win) and I do love gymnastics. The U.S. men's gymnastics team surprised everyone and won the bronze, and while the women let the gold slip away, some of their routines were absolutely a joy to watch. Anyway, I'm a failure at the boycott, but I am glad that President Bush was pretty outspoken with the Chinese government leaders while he was over there. I've been really impressed with the Chinese people, and I have always heard that they are wonderful, friendly, delightful folk--they just have a terrible, oppressive government.

Sunday was good, as always. I love going to church; I love feeling the spirit, and now I'm in the family history class, so maybe I'll actually get going on my genealogy.

On Monday, we ate Chinese food with Julie and the boys, and it's always fun to spend time with the world's best grandsons. I am very much blessed with my children and grandchildren. They're all loving, fun, talented, delightful to be with--what more could you ask?

Yesterday, Lisa and I took Ali, one of the sisters we visit teach, to the temple. It was a very crowded session (kind of surprising on a Tuesday morning) and we had a great experience there. It was especially nice to see several sisters from our Stake working there. I love having our own temple and knowing some of the workers--it makes everything feel so comfortable and right. Ali is another of my former seminary students, and it's nice to get to know her better as a grown-up, too. We had a great visit in the car going over and back and I hope we'll do this again, soon.

I finally finished my story for UT Arlington Magazine this morning. It's about a young man who immigrated to the U.S. from Cambodia and has written a book about his family's experiences there under the Khmer Rouge regime. I always learn a lot from my interviews and research. I have another story to do on an art researcher, and I'm looking forward to that as well. She works in the area of validating art work--confirming that a painting or sculpture is genuine and are not a forgery. It sounds fascinating, too.

The countdown is on for school. Teachers report next Monday, so I really have lots of preparing to do. Gotta run for now.

Wednesday, August 6, 2008

Learning to be a better teacher

The model we're using this year for lesson design involves five parts: Engage, Explore, Explain, Extend and Evaluate. I'm not going to get too far into teacherese here, but I thought you might help me with some Engage activities. The basic idea here is to start class with something that will "hook" the class into the lesson, get them thinking and "engaged" with the material. The activity can be almost anything. For one class, my fellow AP Lit teacher and I will be reviewing Crime and Punishment, which students are to have read over the summer (delightful summer reading, don't you think?). I'm going to ask our school resource officer (a bonafide peace officer) if he can or will come into class and "arrest" someone. (I'm not quite sure if he is allowed to pretend something like that, but I'm going to ask). I think that would get their attention and get them engaged, don't you? We could then proceed into a discussion of the current criminal justice system and the segue into a discussion/review of the book.

I have to come up with "engage" activities for every class, so any clever, fun things you remember from teachers in your past (or present) are greatly appreciated.

Tuesday, August 5, 2008

Back to class for teachers

This week I've been going to classes where people are teaching me how to teach. I know, it sounds a bit boring, but it's actually been really interesting. Today we worked in groups preparing a lesson to share with the entire class (which consists of our entire English department). I'm really pleased with all our new teachers--they are enthusiastic, knowledgeable, and ready to take on the challenge of teaching today's high school students. Our student body, like most urban schools these days, is fairly challenging. They're good kids, but a bit tough on the outside. You have to work your way into their hearts and then they'll do most anything for you. I've been very fortunate in that I am naturally a friendly, easy-going person and I REALLY like hanging out with teenagers. They're fun to talk to and seeing one of them "get" what I'm trying to teach always reinforces my conviction that I'm doing exactly what I should be doing. Advanced placement English presents tremendous challenges for students--the work is hard--but their satisfaction and pride in themselves when they master it are palpable. It's always a great moment for them and for me, too.

It's hot, hot, hot here in Texas these days. Today we had a "cool" front and only hit about 98 degrees. After summers like this, I freely admit, my favorite season is fall. Finally someone upstairs turns on the A/C and we can go outdoors without danger of instantaneous heatstroke. (I don't much like spring--all it does is yell "Summer is coming" to me). The older I get, the less I like the heat, but I love, love, love the cool of fall. (We don't have autumn in Texas, as Jerry Flemmons says, autumn is a marketing ploy of fall-foliage-mecca New England, a wholly-owned subsidiary of Kodak). (By the way, if you haven't read Jerry Flemmon's commentaries on Texas, you gotta. I have the book, just ask).

I'm not sure anyone is reading this yet, but maybe someday there will be someone..............

Saturday, August 2, 2008

And so we begin

I've been thinking about a blog for a long time, and have finally decided to try to begin. I have so much that I need to write (especially all about the trip to Europe in June) that it seems overwhelming, but one must start somewhere.

So, first a review of my lovely day today. This morning I picked up my dear friend A and off we went to see the Impressionist exhibit at Fort Worth's Kimbell Art Museum. This exhibit, from the Chicago Art Institute, features some outstanding, amazing works by favorites like Van Gogh, Monet, Manet, Renoir, Pissaro, and all the greats. My only regret is that they didn't bring Seurat's "La Grande Jette" along for the tour to Fort Worth, but apparently it does not travel. (I actually searched for it on my first visit to the Musee D'Orsay in Paris, but soon learned that it lives in Chicago. Apparently to see that one, I'll have to make a pilgrimage to the windy city). Anyway, A has a son who is an artist and we had a great time looking and talking our way through the museum. I bought a membership to the Kimbell this year just so that I can make multiple trips to this exhibition--and every time I go, I can bring one guest with me--for free!

After the art fix, we went to see my dear, bestest friend, L, who has moved to a darling duplex in Fort Worth. While I regret that she no longer lives as close to me as she once did, I'm thrilled that she is right next door to all the great art museums as well as some delicious restaurants, and one of the world's most fascinating foodie haunts, Central Market. I'll be heading her way about once a month, just to enjoy the culture in her neighborhood.

In other news, I'm getting geared up for the new school year, which pretty much starts for me on Monday, as I'll be in a teacher's academy for three days, then in AP training another day this week. The following week is free, but after that, teachers report to school and it all starts anew. This year I'm teaching AP English Language and Composition (a rhetoric course that focuses on argumentation and nonfiction) and AP Literature and Composition (a course that is all fiction and poetry). They are very different classes, and I've taught AP Language for three years, so I'm not too worried about it. The Lit class is a bit more problematic. I'm excited to do it, but I always feel a bit anxious when I try new things. However, I know I'm going to learn a lot and have a great time with the kids. I love, love, love teaching high school and having the very brightest kids in my classes is a privilege and blessing. I'll have both juniors and seniors this year and I'm really looking forward to the challenge and excitement.

I have also been honored to take on the responsibility of being our department chair for the coming year. It will be another big challenge, but I have been so gratified by the support other teachers have already given to me. Several have said that they knew it would be me and one told me that he feels I'm the right person for the job. I really appreciate their vote of confidence.

I guess that will be all for now. I'll try to get more done in the coming days.

About Me

I'm a happy wife, mom, daughter, sister, teacher, and friend. I love to read (and read and read and read), talk with interesting people (that's pretty much everyone), and travel. I teach high school and LOVE it!